2012-06-17 19:23:53Guruji
碰到愛挑釁的人 該如何處理?
Q: Often I meet aggressive people who don’t hesitate to hurt others for increasing their power or to get what they want. I would like to handle these situations being in love, but often I get afraid and I also become aggressive. How to handle without behaving like them?
Sri Sri: Smile. See no-one can force you to do what you don’t want to do. So you smile and do what you want to do. (Laughter) You need an act to live in the world. If you think someone is aggressive often, it is your own low self-esteem. Often it’s your own feeling of not being attended to. Just examine do you have that feeling within you? Do you want to be given importance? Do you want recognition? Do you want people to be smiling at you all the time?
Sri Sri: Smile. See no-one can force you to do what you don’t want to do. So you smile and do what you want to do. (Laughter) You need an act to live in the world. If you think someone is aggressive often, it is your own low self-esteem. Often it’s your own feeling of not being attended to. Just examine do you have that feeling within you? Do you want to be given importance? Do you want recognition? Do you want people to be smiling at you all the time?
Okay, you’re asking me this question now, whatever aswer I give you, at that moment it won’t help. Because at that moment you’ll forget all these answers. When you are in an aggressive situation if you sould just digest and smile and look at that person, why he is aggressive, with compassion, your aggression will definitely calm down.
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