什麼是保持良好關係的秘密?
PENANG, Malaysia
馬來西亞檳城，
AUG 14 2010
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Q: What is the secret to keep a healthy relationship?
問：什麼是保持良好關係的秘密
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: I have no experience in this field! (Laughter). But I can give some advice.
古儒吉:在這個領域我沒有經驗（笑聲），但是我可以給出幾個忠告。
First for women: Never step on your man's ego. You should always pump and encourage his ego. You know, the whole world may say that your husband has no brains, but you should not say that! You should tell your husband that he has the best brains in the world and just because of the fact that he doesn't use it, doesn't mean that he doesn't have it! You should always tell him that he is the best man. Always pump the ego of a man .If you call him a vegetable, I tell you he will become one.
首先針對女士們：不要去踐踏你的男人的自我。妳應該總是為他的自我打氣和鼓勵。你知道，整個世界都說你的丈夫沒有腦子，而妳不該這麼說。妳該告訴妳的丈夫，你擁有世界最棒頭腦，正因為這是個事實，他不必去使用它，並不意味著他沒有大腦。妳該總是告訴他，他是最棒的男人！不斷地為一個男人的自我打氣。假如你稱他是蔬菜，告訴你，他就會變成蔬菜。
Now one advice for men: Never step on the emotions of a woman. You know, she may sometimes complaint about her family, about her brother or her father or her mother. You should not agree with that. If you do, then she will take a U turn. Never insult her family. Don’t stop her to go for shopping, or going to a spiritual or religious program. If she wants to go for shopping, give her your credit card.
現在給男人一個忠告：千萬別去踐踏女人的情緒。你知道，她可以抱怨關於她的家庭，她的兄弟，她的父親，或是她的母親。你不應該贊同她，如果你這麼做了，將會得到一個反轉，千萬別侮辱他的家人。別阻止她去購物，或去上心靈或宗教課程。假如她想去購物，給她你的信用卡吧！
Now for both: Never ask for proof of someone's love for you. Don't ask each other, “Do you really love me? You don't love me these days just like old days”. You know, it is such a big load for someone to prove their love for others. If someone asks you to prove your love, you would say "Oh my God! How do I prove that to this person?” Do everything with some style and some smile.
現在，給雙方：千萬不要要求某人證明他愛你。不要問對方，你真的愛我嗎？你這幾天不愛我就彷如昔日。你要了解，對於某人而言,要他們去證明,愛著某些人，這會是一個如此大的負擔。假如某人要求你去證明你的愛,你會說：喔！我的上帝！我如何針對這個人去證明呢?帶著風度和微笑去做任何事情吧！