2026-05-23 02:17:39gracelie
流浪女漢子 Being homeless
From 8th of April this year, I am homeless, wandering the streets.
Many people don’t know the reason. The truth is, I played the role of the “good person” for several years, taking on the responsibility of watching over and caring for my mother, who has Alzheimer’s disease, on behalf of my siblings.
On top of that, during the 2020 pandemic, my daughter developed depression because of the lockdown. When I asked my brothers and sisters to help take care of my mother, they all refused. I had to look after both my depressed daughter and my mother with Alzheimer’s by myself. I was completely overwhelmed. Even my sister, whose house I was staying in, demanded that I pay rent.
Later, French civil servants couldn’t bear to see me struggling alone to care for two seriously ill people while being sick myself. The French court then appointed a guardian to manage my mother’s affairs. What I really needed was someone to physically help look after my mother, not just someone to handle administrative paperwork. This guardian made many mistakes herself. To stop me from suing her in court, she fired me.
Because I had disrupted my siblings’ previously carefree lives, and now they would have to pay if they didn’t take care of our mother themselves, they united to attack me and collectively kicked me out. That’s how I ended up homeless on the streets.
I was taking care of my mom voluntarily at the time, but they also voluntarily chose not to. Facing my mother with Alzheimer’s and my daughter with depression all by myself was incredibly helpless and overwhelming. Now they won’t let me see my mother, and my daughter doesn’t want to live with them either. They won’t let me go home to be with my mother — but honestly, I no longer care. With siblings like this, it’s better to have nothing to do with them. My mother has long since forgotten me completely anyway. Whether I visit her or not doesn’t matter anymore.
Life is only one journey. Being born into a good family can make a huge difference. Unfortunately, I was born into this one. I can only hope for the next life — or the next reincarnation — to completely escape this environment. My daughter must also leave this toxic, money-driven, snobbish family.
今年4月8號，我開始會流浪街頭。很多人不知道原因，其實原因就是我做了幾年老好人，幫我的兄姐承擔看和照顧我有阿爾茲海默症的媽媽。加上2020年的疫情，我女兒因為封控得了抑鬱症，當我和我兄姐們要求幫看一下我母親，他們都拒絕了。而我要照顧女兒，又要照顧母親，我一個人忙不過來，讓我住她房子的姐姐還要我給房租。後來法國公務員看不慣我一個人要照顧兩個重病人，我自己也有病在身。法國法庭就指派了一位管理我母親的監護人，其實我需要的是一個幫看我母親的人，不是需要一個辦行政手續的人。這個監護人自己做錯了很多事，她為了避免我上法庭告她，把我炒了。
我的兄姐們，因為我打破他們之前的悠閒日子，現在他們如果不看媽媽就要付錢，所以他們集體攻擊我。集體把我趕出門。我就是因為這樣流浪街頭。
我當時看我媽媽是自願的，可是他們不想看她也是自願的。每當我自己一個人要面對阿爾茲海默症的母親，和抑鬱症的女兒，真的是很無助。現在他們不讓我去看我母親，我女兒也不想住他們家，他們不讓我回家陪母親，我也無所謂了。因為這種兄姐，不要也罷，母親也早就把我忘得一乾二淨。去不去看她也無所謂了。
人生一場，出生在好的家庭，能幫助很多，我不幸的出生在這樣的一個家，就期待下一個家，不然就是下一輩子，才能完全脫離這種環境。我女兒也必須要離開這種有毒的，只看錢的勢利環境。
Many people don’t know the reason. The truth is, I played the role of the “good person” for several years, taking on the responsibility of watching over and caring for my mother, who has Alzheimer’s disease, on behalf of my siblings.
On top of that, during the 2020 pandemic, my daughter developed depression because of the lockdown. When I asked my brothers and sisters to help take care of my mother, they all refused. I had to look after both my depressed daughter and my mother with Alzheimer’s by myself. I was completely overwhelmed. Even my sister, whose house I was staying in, demanded that I pay rent.
Later, French civil servants couldn’t bear to see me struggling alone to care for two seriously ill people while being sick myself. The French court then appointed a guardian to manage my mother’s affairs. What I really needed was someone to physically help look after my mother, not just someone to handle administrative paperwork. This guardian made many mistakes herself. To stop me from suing her in court, she fired me.
Because I had disrupted my siblings’ previously carefree lives, and now they would have to pay if they didn’t take care of our mother themselves, they united to attack me and collectively kicked me out. That’s how I ended up homeless on the streets.
I was taking care of my mom voluntarily at the time, but they also voluntarily chose not to. Facing my mother with Alzheimer’s and my daughter with depression all by myself was incredibly helpless and overwhelming. Now they won’t let me see my mother, and my daughter doesn’t want to live with them either. They won’t let me go home to be with my mother — but honestly, I no longer care. With siblings like this, it’s better to have nothing to do with them. My mother has long since forgotten me completely anyway. Whether I visit her or not doesn’t matter anymore.
Life is only one journey. Being born into a good family can make a huge difference. Unfortunately, I was born into this one. I can only hope for the next life — or the next reincarnation — to completely escape this environment. My daughter must also leave this toxic, money-driven, snobbish family.
今年4月8號，我開始會流浪街頭。很多人不知道原因，其實原因就是我做了幾年老好人，幫我的兄姐承擔看和照顧我有阿爾茲海默症的媽媽。加上2020年的疫情，我女兒因為封控得了抑鬱症，當我和我兄姐們要求幫看一下我母親，他們都拒絕了。而我要照顧女兒，又要照顧母親，我一個人忙不過來，讓我住她房子的姐姐還要我給房租。後來法國公務員看不慣我一個人要照顧兩個重病人，我自己也有病在身。法國法庭就指派了一位管理我母親的監護人，其實我需要的是一個幫看我母親的人，不是需要一個辦行政手續的人。這個監護人自己做錯了很多事，她為了避免我上法庭告她，把我炒了。
我的兄姐們，因為我打破他們之前的悠閒日子，現在他們如果不看媽媽就要付錢，所以他們集體攻擊我。集體把我趕出門。我就是因為這樣流浪街頭。
我當時看我媽媽是自願的，可是他們不想看她也是自願的。每當我自己一個人要面對阿爾茲海默症的母親，和抑鬱症的女兒，真的是很無助。現在他們不讓我去看我母親，我女兒也不想住他們家，他們不讓我回家陪母親，我也無所謂了。因為這種兄姐，不要也罷，母親也早就把我忘得一乾二淨。去不去看她也無所謂了。
人生一場，出生在好的家庭，能幫助很多，我不幸的出生在這樣的一個家，就期待下一個家，不然就是下一輩子，才能完全脫離這種環境。我女兒也必須要離開這種有毒的，只看錢的勢利環境。